“I gave at the office! ” That’s the put-off line used by many when asked for yet another donation to a charity, special cause, or fund-raiser. It’s a kind of cop out to stop the asking, whether we gave or not.
The reality is: There are many truly compelling reasons why we’re asked to contribute time and money to help people in dire trouble, some we may know and many we don’t.
We witnessed it in the 2012 devastation and loss of life caused by:
- Hurricane Sandy on the east coast
- Raging forest fires out west
- Tornados in the mid-west
- Relentless drought across the country
The news coverage connects us with the human misery, the disruption to people’s lives, and the unfathomable monetary and material loss. “There, but for the grace of God, go I,” we say to ourselves.
Many of us look for some way to help. We may send money through organizations like the American Red Cross or Salvation Army. We may hop on buses or get in our cars and go to lend a hand.
In a dramatic crisis, something in our hearts motivates us to help however we can.
Pain at the office
Our jobs can become increasingly demanding, so it’s easy to become absorbed in our own daily grind. We’re engrossed in meeting performance expectations, dealing the boss’s idiosyncrasies, struggling with changing work methods, and managing our time.
The truth is: Crises find their way into our offices. They may affect your work unit, the department, the company, or simply the coworker you sit next to.
It’s things like:
- A new employee who 1.) no one talks to; 2.) is mistreated, 3.) makes mistakes, or 4.) struggles to master the work
- A persistent conflict among coworkers who can’t find common ground on a work issue
- A boss who alienates certain team members because s/he doesn’t understand how the work is done
- A failed work process that caused customer outrage
- A workplace accident resulting in the serious injury of several employees
- An unexpected workload that must be completed asap to meet customer deadlines
The big question is: What are you prepared to do?
- Will you wait until someone asks you to pitch in?
- Will you lay low because you “don’t want to get your hands dirty?”
- Will you step up and offer your ideas, expertise, time, and/or leadership?
When trouble comes to your office, there’s an opportunity to “give” of yourself because it’s the right thing to do.
Selflessness is part courage.
Crises are relative. A crisis to you may or may not be a crisis to me. It just matters that when people feel that the situations they’re in are more than they can handle, you have an opportunity to offer help.
Crises manifest confusion. Leadership promises to restore order. Your selfless entry into a crisis of any dimension is a willingness to address that confusion and quell some of it.
As with any disaster, we need to give what we know we can. It’s not about over-extending or over-reaching.
At work you can:
- Help that struggling coworker by showing them how to avoid errors or helping them build friendships
- Offer an idea that will help conflicting parties reach a compromise
- Talk to the boss about his/her work knowledge if you have the right kind of relationship with him/her
- Provide an idea that will help fix that failed customer process
- Suggest a change in safety procedures
- Work extra hours to meet that surprise workload
That’s how you “give at the office” when things get dicey. It’s about you thinking more about someone else than about yourself.
Getting in the habit of giving selflessly at work and in the community enriches us. It’s a habit that builds on itself. The more we do, the easier it gets.
When we recognize the value of those opportunities to give, the “thanks giving” comes from within us. In many cases, “ thanks getting” will follow.
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